Reclaim Your spark 

Live Your New Chapter with freedom, purpose and confidence

I help people navigate transition, and rise into their most free and powerful chapter following a rough time or relationship.

Hi, I'm Kat

High Performance Coach. Campaigner. Survivor.

These days I'm also an Adventurer.
Nature Lover. Happiest Off Grid.
And Wildly Creative.
Let's see if we're a fit. 

If you're thinking, I've been through so much and want more for my life, I can help.

At night, you lie in bed and wonder:

  • Should I look for a new job?
  • What's going to make me happier?
  • WTF do I do with my life?
  • Should I just scrap it all and buy that alpaca farm?

and also

  • How did I let that happen?
  • How can I trust again?
  • How can I maintain inner peace?

These questions spill over into the rest of your life. You’re distracted. Confused. Scared to speak up at times. And if you have kids, it’s harder to be present with them.

You know you’re doing a great job of moving on, but let’s be honest: there’s more for you.

You have the courage to do big things on this planet. Whether that’s for your family, 10 people or 100,000 people. You’re looking for a life which feels meaningful and truly you. 

The good news is, you don’t have to figure it out alone. You just have to take a different approach.

The storm has passed. You’ve demonstrated true courage and strength. Everyone assumes you’re ok now. But inside, there’s uncertainty. Shame. A yearning for calm. 

You’ve survived the crisis, handled the practical, and you're looking after yourself. But somewhere along the way you hit resilience burnout. 

Your sense of freedom feels stagnated, not because you’re wanting to go back, but because you want to enjoy life more. 

You've outgrown who you were, and you're wondering what would feel more purposeful, adventurous, exciting in your life, based on who you are now.

Some weeks you’re fine day to day, yet some you want to rip up the book and go live in the woods. Ok, I actually did that, more on that later. 

Then there’s shame, and that exists deep down, piping up all over the place. 

Each time you start to think what is going to make me happy, a new job? A holiday? Changes to my business? More time? New hobbies? More support in my relationships? New love? A sense of purpose? There's so much growth each time you ask yourself these questions but without clarity and action, it leaves you feeling scattered and overwhelmed.

So you may have more freedom, but you’re not exactly lit up. The space to think, create, and breathe is getting crowded out. And so is some of the joy.



Do you feel like you’ve moved on, but things still feel a bit wobbly?

I can help you live your new chapter in ways which feel amazing, for you. 

Often people think that starting a new chapter, means adding more.

More masking and more proving yourself.

But you don’t need more. You need:

Fewer “shoulds.”
So you stop living for everyone else’s expectations and start choosing for you.

Fewer masks. So you can show up as your true self without apology.

Fewer walls. So you can trust yourself again and create relationships that feel safe, loving and supportive.

You’ve already done the hardest part. You don’t need to tear yourself down and start over. You just need space to realign to what’s truly you, and release what no longer serves.

The question is
: how do you know what to let go of and what to keep?

That’s where I come in.

Think of me like a mirror that reflects your strengths, resilience and fire back to you.
I’ll walk with you through the beliefs, patterns, and stories you carry, and together we’ll keep what feels true. The rest? We’ll thank it, and let it go.

We only add new practices if they support your values, desires and the life you actually want.

This is how you step into the next version of yourself:
With clarity, courage, and a map back to your freedom.

You want to work 20 hour weeks or go for that promotion?
You want to start that business idea?
Sell your artwork?
Take part in that triathlon?
Book that adventure you've been dreaming of?
Or spend an evening without being on your phone every 5 minutes.....

I can help you get clear on how to do what makes YOU happy. 

Let's help you RECLAIM. Here's an overview of what we'll cover in 12 sessions.

True Self (Choosing Your Path)

We start with self compassion first. When we treat ourselves with the same kindness we would afford a child, friend or even a stranger, something different becomes possible.

This mindset shift is essential for our self care since past motivations for taking care of ourselves may have come from a desire to be accepted, safe, valued, or just enough in someone else’s eyes. We can take that skewed motivation off the table. Then take the clarity gained from coaching and combine it with compassion for ourselves . This opens a new path which feels true. That's game changing.  


Your Outer Game (Your New Map)

Once we have released shame and started a new, kinder relationship with ourself, it’s time to figure out our “Outer Game” which answers the question WHAT to do.

There is usually no problem finding advice about what to do, just open your social media feed or talk to a friend or family member. The problem is advice that worked for someone else may not work for you. This is where I step in with no judgement or bias. I am here to help you discover what you want, and then help you carve your path.  

Your Inner Game (Inner Compass)

As you may have experienced first hand, knowing what to do is not the same as actually doing it.

This is where we need to incorporate habits, mindset tools and self trust to support your goals and plan.

Sometimes what causes the most suffering isn’t just what happened to us, it’s also what happens after. When we silence our needs out of shame and guilt.



We’re told to be strong, move on, not let it drag on. When we suppress our truth, carry the same limiting beliefs and bury things deep down, we make future decisions based on these beliefs rather than what we truly want. Self care practices like a walk in nature are great, but we need a new approach to self care, to replace shame with radical self love. 

My True Self Formula starts with YOU first, before you roles, identities, plans and goals. 


I am not a therapist and am not here to focus on the past. I am not crisis support either. I provide support once the dust has settled, in the aftermath when everyone assumes you’re ok now. 

My coaching helps you better understand yourself- your values, needs and desires, forgiving, and growing the behaviours and beliefs needed to create a life aligned with what truly makes you happy. 

This runs deeper than any self help guide, podcast or book. My coaching is not something that can be replicated by AI or social media. I am a coach that meets you where you are, and walks with you into what’s next.

I offer non judgemental, compassion and understanding to see you, help you become clear on who you truly are and where you want to be.


My approach isn’t about fixing you. You are not broken.

Our sessions are online, yet they're more like sitting around glowing campfire with warm conversations, good food, inspiring ideas and stories, than an uninspiring office, plastic chair and strip lighting.

Who this is for



  • You’ve already left the damaging relationship, that’s what matters. I’m not here to focus on your ex, but on you and your next chapter.

  • I’m not a therapist. My coaching is present and future focused, and works well alongside therapy if that’s part of your journey.

  • I’m warm, non-judgemental, and direct. Nothing you say will shock me. If you value depth, honesty, and real change, we’ll be a good fit.

  • And beyond coaching, if you love creativity, wild spaces, cold dips, long walks, or evenings by a campfire, chances are we’ll connect

Hi, I'm Kat Heeley.

I’m a High Performance Coach with a background in performance coaching, corporate leadership and the Police, but more than that I’m a woman who’s rebuilt her life more times than she can count. Physically, mentally, emotionally.

Over the last twenty years I’ve led in the corporate world, coached athletes and senior leaders and in roles supporting people in crisis. Including people experiencing domestic abuse.

I’ve lived through a debilitating chronic illness, multiple traumas, knocked off my bicycle by a vehicle during an event, where I suffered multiple injuries including a brain injury. I've rebuilt from PTSD, memory loss, heartbreak, walking away from things I love, and grief. I know what it’s like to survive, only to ask who am I now, and how did I lose myself.

There was a time I clung to what was familiar and strived for perfectionism, masking what was going on inside and outside, especially when things didn’t feel right. I thought that control would keep me safe. But the more I tried to fix things and dismiss my own needs by silencing my own voice, the further I drifted from myself. 

Eventually, life brought me to my knees and in those moments of heartbreak, fear and loss, I found a part of me I never expected: clarity, self love, courage and a wild, inner freedom that burns bright, much stronger than the shame put on me by others. I found myself. My voice. 

Working with a coach was the turning point. I rebuilt from the inside out, with clarity, confidence and calling to return to my true self. I believe that things have happened for me, rather than to me. All of my messy, painful struggles led to me becoming a coach and working within the police, supporting many people to lead rich, fulfilling, purposeful lives including people who have experienced abuse.

I am grateful for everything I have experienced in my life so far, as they have given me the understanding, compassion and deep desire to shine a light for others, and help them rise into their true power, too.

My mission is to help people reclaim their freedom and rebuild fulfilling lives after domestic abuse, and to empower the workplaces that support them.

As a transformation coach, I walk alongside survivors as they create new lives rooted in self love, trust, connection, and relationships that truly nourish. Together, we design lifestyles aligned with each person’s deepest values, needs, and desires. To make this support accessible, I subsidise the cost of individual coaching through my business consultancy services.

kat's story

Performance coach, Founder
Business Consultant
PART WOODLAND HIPPY, PART LEADER
PART ADVENTURER, PART ARTIST.
KIND, COMPASSIONATE, CREATIVE.

What I Offer

Here’s what it is: a space for you to breathe, take stock, explore and figure out what’s next.


Sometimes that happens around a fire in the woods, sometimes on a Zoom call, sometimes walking by a river.

My coaching blends high performance tools and trauma-informed support. It’s equal parts compassion and courage, honesty and warmth.

More like hiking a mountain with a trusted guide, than a meeting under strip lights. Less boardroom strategy, more campfire conversation.
Less “fixing,” more remembering who you are.

Here’s what you can expect:


🧭 Clarity. We’ll figure out what you truly need and want, so you stop scattering your energy on old beliefs, patterns and “shoulds.”A sense of direction, grounded in your own values and desires


🔥 Confidence. Rebuild love and trust in yourself, set boundaries that feel good, and reconnect with your spark.

🌿 Grounding
. Where possible, we’ll work outdoors in woodland, by rivers, or around campfires. Because nature has a way of bringing us back to ourselves.


❤️ Support. You’ll have someone who gets it, who’s been there, and who will walk beside you without judgement or pressure.


✨ Freedom. Together we’ll sketch a life that feels aligned, powerful, and truly yours. With the map, tools and compass to build it. 

I’m not here to fix you. You’re not broken.

This is about creating space to breathe, to remember who you are, and to take steps toward a chapter that feels good in your bones

This is 1:1 coaching. Just you and me. Not a course, not a group, not a cookie cutter formula.

The Investment:

(I like to be upfront about money, so there are no surprises)

  12 x 90 minute sessions over 3 or 6 months: £700

This is reduction of over £1000 from my previous fee. I understand you may have financial restraints and I aim to keep the cost as low as possible, subsidised by my business consultant services. 

Payment plans are always available. Sessions are online and dependant on locality, some can be in person in our beautiful woodland space.

There’s no sales pitch here. I’m not into pressure or convincing. Coaching with me is a commitment of time, energy, and yes, money. And only you know if it’s the right season for you.

Next Step:

If this feels like it might be for you, drop me an email and I will get back to you with availability options for a call.

Just a gentle conversation to see if it feels right. Bring a coffee and your questions. If it feels right, great. We’ll map out a journey together.
If it doesn’t, that’s also great.
I'd love it if you left with more clarity either way.

Get in touch